Fall of the Bag Lady...

Ladies... Why do we hold on to things from the past? I'm not saying forget but I'm just saying don't let it consume you. So many of us have been through ups and downs... sometimes mostly downs and we dwell on it and bring it into our next relationships. I mean whether we've had a bad relationship, problems with a friend or family, work issues.... we just continue to hold onto it.... I'm not saying just be free like a hippie from the 70's and float on cloud 9 everyday in your own little dream world riding a unicorn next to your prince charming... I'm just saying it will be nice to feel that way just being cautious that a dragon may appear but not thinking that the dragon is chasing you ready to eat you alive so though it feels right... you're to paranoid to enjoy it. Excuse my fairytale antics... though life is a book... constantly... turning page after page... chapter after chapter... Are you the person that continues to go back and read the same page over and over and over again.... Are you the person that rushes and skims through the chapters.... or are you the person that reads a chapter and move along to the next.... One... It may take you forever to move on.... Two... You may rush to quickly and miss out on the important or special moments... and Three.... Which is what I want to learn to do... You take your time experience each life experience and go to the next. I've made alot of mistakes and I've been through alot of pain in my life... and I have messed up alot of potential relationships with my revenge, paranoid attitude... sometimes it was for the best and maybe sometimes it wasn't... Who knows? But I refuse to bring any negative energy into my next potential relationship... I will not be easily fooled but I will not miss out on my blessing either.... Ladies... do the same... open your heart... open your mind... yet, keep your legs closed.... lol.... FALL OF THE BAG LADY.